so Dad & I were joking about how Mum is old enough to be a grandmother and she made the comment that she probably never would be
and I said “well yeah the thought of matthew or thomas being a parent is scary” because well if you know my brothers that is v scary they are not and never will be fit to raise other human beings
and Dad’s response was “Rebecca you never know your life could change many times over its course don’t pigeonhole yourself into one thing”
which is subtle Stephen-speak for “you don’t really hate children despite the fact you have for your entire life even when you were very much a child, also gay is a phase”.
Or it could be just the hating children thing and I’m reading into it too much. I’ll never know.
sigh. it would be less frustrating if he was blatantly homophobic because then I’d just be angry at him, and Mum and his sisters would also get angry at him about it, but because he’s subtle and whatever everyone’s kinda like “well he’s kind of accepting it” nO HE ISN’T I DON’T THINK IT DOESN’T REALLY FEEL LIKE IT